Might as well just say what you have to say. And then let the pillow doing the talking. I'm falling in love with these oh so honest pillows from Alexandra Ferguson at etsy! Plus they are made from recycled plastic water bottles. Each pillow is approximately the equivalent of 4 bottles that would have otherwise ended up in a landfill. They are probably more decorative than functional but I think this would be the BEST way to let that someone know just what your thinking!